It’s the Thought That Counts: On Perceiving How Helpers Decide to Lend a Hand
- 1 April 2004
- journal article
- other
- Published by SAGE Publications in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin
- Vol. 30 (4) , 461-474
- https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167203261890
Abstract
How do people react to those who have helped them? The authors propose that a recipient’s evaluation of a helper’s intentions and the recipient’s own attitudes about future interactions with the helper depend partly on the recipient’s perceptions of how the helper decided to assist: on the basis of affect, of role, or of cost-benefit calculation. When a recipient perceives that the decision was based on affect (i.e., positive feelings about him or her), he or she will be more inclined toward future interaction and reciprocation than if he or she perceives the decision as based on role or cost-benefit calculation. It is proposed that these “decision modes” signal the helper’s underlying attitudes about the recipient, which in turn, clarify their relationship. A boundary is also identified: The negative impact of apparent cost-benefit thinking is greatest when the amount of help provided is small. Predictions are confirmed in four studies of actual and experimentally manipulated helping episodes.Keywords
This publication has 16 references indexed in Scilit:
- What have you done for me lately? Temporal adjustments to favor evaluationsOrganizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, 2003
- It's Different to Give Than to Receive: Predictors of Givers' and Receivers' Reactions to Favor Exchange.Journal of Applied Psychology, 2003
- Elements of a Lay Theory of Groups: Types of Groups, Relational Styles, and the Perception of Group EntitativityPersonality and Social Psychology Review, 2001
- Is gratitude a moral affect?Psychological Bulletin, 2001
- The meaning of social interactions in the transition from acquaintanceship to friendship.Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1997
- Keeping Track of Needs and Inputs of Friends and StrangersPersonality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 1989
- Equity and equality as clues to the relationship between exchange participantsEuropean Journal of Social Psychology, 1983
- Obligation, donor resources, and reactions to aid in three cultures.Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1975
- Effect of intentionality on willingness to reciprocate a favorJournal of Experimental Social Psychology, 1972
- The Norm of Reciprocity: A Preliminary StatementAmerican Sociological Review, 1960