The factors bringing about the irreversible distortion or degeneration of a continuously forced standing internal gravity wave in a linearly stratified fluid are studied experimentally and theoretically. For a rectangular container there is strong evidence that the process is initiated by the unstable growth, from a subliminal level, of free wave modes forming triads in second-order resonant interaction with the original wave. These free modes grow by de-energizing the original wave and may collectively induce kinematical conditions sufficiently severe to create localized regions of density discontinuity within the fluid, leading to turbulence. Although the possible free wave modes are doubly infinite in number, the geometrical constraints greatly reduce the number of possibilities for resonant triads. In many cases this permits critical wave amplitude to be predicted by consideration of one triad only, and the results are in excellent agreement with experiment. It is speculated that a closely similar process explains observations by Malkus (1968), Aldridge & Toomre (1969), and McEwan (1970) in the analogous context of inertial oscillation of contained rotating fluids.