Symptom Bearer as Marital Distance Regulator: Clinical Implications
- 1 December 1980
- journal article
- case report
- Published by Wiley in Family Process
- Vol. 19 (4) , 355-365
- https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1545-5300.1980.00355.x
Abstract
Certain families experience conflict in regulating their interpersonal distance because they are afraid of separation and intimacy. A couple that lives in the shadow of this double-ended catastrophe may triangle in a "go-between" to bring them together if they get too far apart, or separate them when they are too close. Ambivalence about the couple's relationship predisposes a family member, often an in-law or child, to be recruited to this role. The "go-between" ambivalence then becomes the couple's homeostat, and symptoms are likely to appear in this individual. Implications for family therapy are illustrated through a full-length case study.Keywords
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